Tips To Convince The Wife To Let Me Get A Motorcycle?
November 24th, 2009 | 
Author: I’ve researched, I’ve taken the safety course, I know the dangers and how to effectively manage the risk. What else can I do? (And yes, I care about how she feels.)
I’ve researched, I’ve taken the safety course, I know the dangers and how to effectively manage the risk. What else can I do? (And yes, I care about how she feels.)
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My husband wants to get a motorcycle too. I don’t necessarily think it’s the best idea (although I think motorcycles are kick-***). I don’t want him to do it because it there is anything in this world that would increase his chances of death by even .0001 percent, I would avoid it. Put yourself in her shoes, and think about how you would feel if she wanted to get a motorcycle too (and actually think about the dangers that she’d be exposed to). If, in the end, it’s still what you want to do, then tell her so. If she loves you, she’ll just give in. We only want the best for you guys, and sometimes we have to not think about how we would feel if something happened to you and just let you do what makes you happy, even if it costs you a body part or your very life. Good luck with the discussion.
with the amount of road rage on the high way nowdays,good luck man,Gods speed
my wife use to give me crap about wanting one too. i went out and got one anyway and came home with it. after awhile she came around and went for a ride. that was all it took. now i need help getting her off the darn thing
Tell her if you lose a leg, you’ll be less likely to run off with someone else.
use the same techniques u used to get in her pants when u first met her….duh, that page 1 stuff in the mandbook
I know that people look at motorcycles as cool and daring maybe she might not like the attention you would receive from women in general. Tip what would your wife really like do a trade off!!!!!
If you care about how she feels then just respect that she doesn’t want you to have the bike and realize that no bike is safe, no matter what kind of gear you are wearing or how expensive your bike is.
If her present answer is a hard and fast “No, absoulutely not”, and you genuinely care about how she feels, then there is nothing you can do to convince her otherwise. If, however, she is of the mindset that she would “rather” you not get one, you have some wiggle room. Obviously she did not have too much problem with you taking the riding course and she would be just plain stupid if she thought you were taking it just for giggles. She had to have known at that time that you were at least slightly interested in buying a motorcycle and if she had it in her mind that you would ride one only over her dead body, then she would have told you that the course would be a waste of time because she would never agree to you getting one.
You might have to play semantics. If she, even once, says anything to the effect, “If that’s what you really want, but I’d rather you didn’t”, I’d take that as permission and get one the next day before she had a chance to tell you flat NO. That’s what I did. I told my wife, pretty much out of the blue, that I was thinking of buying a motorcycle and she didn’t come out and tell me not to. I took that as implied consent and bought one the next day before she could say otherwise. She now enjoys going on rides with me and loves it.
Tell her that you want to see her on the back of it and pick out some sexy clothes for her and make her want it too.
Borrow one from a friend and take her for a ride. I was dead set against my boyfriend getting one but after the ride I found it relaxing-and best of all it’s a gas saver.
Get her one of her own. Find someone to lend you a bike, rent one, or have someone who owns take her for a ride. Tell her that if she lets you get one, you’ll _______ (fill that in with whatever she really wants you to do, like doing dishes for a month!) Be willing to sacrifice something else that she hates.
Seriously, get her on a bike.
When I first started going out with my old man I was $hit scared of his bike. I mean damn, your flying down the road with only a little bit of leather for protection. What the hell is that supposed to do for you if you put your bike down?There was no f**king way I was going to get on that thing.
The one night I wanted to go and grab some movies and my truck was in the shop. The Movie store was only 8 blocks away but it was late and I didn’t want to walk by myself. He wouldn’t walk with me but he would give me a ride (he’d been trying for a while to get me on it).
This time I said yes. I fell in love that night. There never anything better.
Show her the cool leathers you’ll buy her to ride in.
it’s time to just BUCK up. why give her something just because u want to buy a bike. buy the bike and be done with it.if there is one thing i have learned in life it is to be your own person and listen to your thoughts. if this is something u really want to do, “DO IT”. ask yourself this…would u expect some kind of bribe from her if she wanted something bad enough?
Buy it, walk in the door and say “honey guess what I bought? That’s what all my buds and me have done! Then tell her how much money you’ll save and that you’ll always wear your helmet. That’s right lie to her!
Don’t fret, some day after your divorced, you can get the bike,
Or you could just buy it, and while your enjoying the ride home on it, think about what your going to say when your fighting at home.
I choose divorce or fight, before no bike
Cycles make me horney…deal.
I ride a motorcycle for my daily commute. There’s no way to manage the risk. Some day a short person driving an oversized SUV on a crowded day on the freeway is going to not see me, and make a lane change. I live with it. There’s no wife or children who depend on me.
Here’s my recommendation: Don’t get that motorcycle. Do you want to know how I got my current motorcycle? It belonged to my boss. His business partners told him to lose it because it was too dangerous — would imperil the business if he were killed or disabled. So he gave the motorcycle to me. LOL.
Go buy a pair of pants why don’t you. They sell them at Sears.
I grew up in the Daytona Beach area. The sound of a Harley does something to me that is equal to good sex. I know that you won’t pick me to give the ten points to because… I side with your wife. She must love you. I would like to know how you can effectively manage the risk of the other guy coming to hit you. I have buried too many safe, smart, but still dead, friends from bike wrecks. Always closed coffins. My answer would only be “go for it” if for live and ride out in the country, away from all the jerks in the city. I only ride four wheelers and dirt bikes now.
tell her that its a great way for yall to spend time together considering yall can go on long motercylcle rides together
it gets great gas milage it can also be used as a big vibrator
tell her your trying to save the environment by using less fuel than a hybrid.
say v can go out 2gether and get something 2 eat or just roam
take her to a motorcycle dealership and have her sit on one with you.Rev the engine a couple of times she’ll probably agree.(feel the vibration)
You are trying to persuade your wife about something that is only for your entertainment and pleasure. I don’t enjoy riding on the back of a bike; perhaps she’d warm up to the idea if you suggested you get motorcycles for both of you!
Or on a less grander scale, consider getting dirt bikes for the both of you; that’d be fun and no traffic to contend with.
Other than low gas consumption, if a spouse is against you getting a motorcycle, and you get one anyway, it’ll create a rift between you which will always be a sore spot and a constant source of worry for her.
I would try to compromise by the suggestions I’ve mentioned above, or consider something entirely different that you both can enjoy like a boat, bicycles so you can go cycling together, Togetherness activities here are what would persuade her.
How about a health club membership so you could work out together? How about investing in a course on rapelling and try that together? Or if you live near snow, how about a snowmobile or snowshoes you both could enjoy? A seasons pass at a ski resort with lessons and gear?
If I were married, all of these suggestions would appeal to me rather than some item my husband wanted to purchase primarily for his own use.
How about getting hunting licenses and go to shooting range together and hunt together?
Or fishing licenses and gear and fish together?
Tennis or raquetball lessons & games together?
Last but not least, how about you suggest she can get plastic surgery or electroysis (hair removal) or other cosmetic indulgences like give her a years worth of gift certificates for her to get a massage. I doubt there are many women who could refuse that offer!
Transplant doctors call them donorcycles.
Make sure you fill out an organ donor card.
Buy lots of life insurance.
Then your widow can find a guy with a brain.
Tell her you understand and appreciate the fear she has for your safety, but that there are inherent risks in everything we do. Driving a car is dangerous. If you’re an aggressive car driver, and she knows it, that’s definately reason for her to be afraid, and if that’s the case, I too say you should not get a bike. If you’re safe, sane and responsible though, your just going to let her know who wears the pants in the family.That’snot to say some other wack job can’t still take you out though. When you get out there on the road, you will see people in cars who drive really idiotic around motorcycles, and they are the same people posting answers like John Q’s above. Some people just HATE motorcycles, it’s sad but true.